ʻO kekahi o nā hana leʻaleʻa hoʻonui a hoʻonāukiuki hoʻi ke huakaʻi nei. Hiki iā ʻoe ke ʻike i nā wahi hou, nā moʻomeheu hou a me nā kuanaʻike hou i ke ola.
ʻOiai ʻo ka huakaʻi hoʻokahi wale nō ke lilo i manaʻo maikaʻi no ka mea he mea hoʻonāukiuki ia, hoʻonāukiuki a me ka uku, ke huakaʻi nei ma ke ʻano he mau kāne e hāʻawi iā ʻoe i nā manawa he nui e hoʻoikaika i nā aloha o ke aloha, e ʻike nui aku kekahi i kekahi a hāʻawi i kahi manaʻo i ke ʻano o ke ola.
Inā pili ʻole ʻoe, eia mākou e hāʻawi iā ʻoe i nā kumu he 18 no ke aha kahi huakaʻi ma ke ʻano he kāne he mea pono ʻoe e hoʻāʻo ma ka liʻiliʻi i hoʻokahi manawa i kou ola.
1. E hoʻoikaika i kou pilina
He mea maʻamau ia i ka wā o kahi huakaʻi huakaʻi, e kū mai nā ʻike a me nā mea hiki ke loaʻa paha. Ke kū nei kēia mau mea ma ke ʻano he kāne, hiki ke hoʻomohala ʻia ka pilina ʻoi aku ka ikaika a ʻoi aku ka pale ma mua o ka mea i hana ʻia i kekahi mau hana o kēlā me kēia lā e like me ka hele ʻana i nā kiʻi ʻoniʻoni a i ʻole ka ʻaina awakea.
He mea ʻole inā piʻi ʻoe i Kilimanjaro a i ʻole gondola ma Venice, inā ʻoe e hana i kēia mau hana ma ke ʻano he kāne a ʻike ʻoe i kahi kūpono no ka pilina e oʻo a hoʻoikaika. Hāʻawi pū ia iā ʻoe e ʻike i kahi helehelena ʻē aʻe o kēlā kanaka āu e aloha ai.
2. ʻOi aku ka liʻiliʻi
Ma ka hele huakaʻi ʻana, halihali ʻoe i nā kumukūʻai holoʻokoʻa holoʻokoʻa. Ke huakaʻi ʻoe ma ke ʻano he ʻelua, ma kahi o ka hoʻokaʻawale ʻana i ka ʻike, kaʻana like ʻoe i nā lilo e pili ana i ka noho ʻana, ka halihali ʻana, nā meaʻai a me nā hana ʻē aʻe.
3. Hōʻike i ke ʻano maoli o kāu hoa
ʻO ka huakaʻi pū kekahi kahi koho ʻē aʻe maikaʻi loa e hui ai a i ʻole ʻike iki i ke ʻano o kāu hoa.
I ka wā o ka huakaʻi he mea maʻamau ia no nā manawa o ke koʻikoʻi e hoʻokau iā mākou e haʻalele i ko mākou wahi hōʻoluʻolu a kū i nā hanana i maʻa ʻole iā mākou i ko mākou ola i kēlā me kēia lā. E ʻae kēia iā ʻoe e nānā i nā hopena a kāu hoa i kēia mau hanana. Hiki iā ʻoe ke ʻike i nā ʻano hiki o ko lākou ʻano āu i ʻike ʻole ai, maikaʻi a maikaʻi ʻole hoʻi.
4. Māhele ʻia nā hoʻoholo
Ke huakaʻi ʻoe me kekahi, ʻaʻole ʻoe ke kuleana no ka hoʻoholo ʻana i nā hoʻoholo āpau, hiki iā ʻoe ke ʻae iā ʻoe iho e hāʻawi i kahi kaohi, hoʻomaha a leʻaleʻa i ka huakaʻi.
He mea nui kēia, mai ka wā e hoʻoholo ana, e loaʻa iā ʻoe ka kuanaʻike o kekahi kanaka ʻē aʻe i loaʻa ka manaʻo ʻokoʻa mai iā ʻoe, hoʻonui kēia i nā manawa kūpono e hoʻoholo pono ai.
5. Hui pū nā ʻike hou
I ka wā o ka huakaʻi he hiki ʻole ke loaʻa nā ʻike i waho o ka maʻamau. Ke hoʻāʻo nei i kahi kīʻaha exotic, wiwo ʻole e lele i ka benji a i ʻole e luʻu i loko o ka wai hohonu kahi laʻana o ka mea hiki iā ʻoe ke ʻike i kahi huakaʻi. Ma ka hana ʻana ma ke ʻano he kāne, e hoʻokūpaʻa ʻia ka pilina a e hana ʻia kahi pilina ikaika ma waena o ʻolua.
6. Aʻo ʻoe e hilinaʻi i kekahi kanaka
I ka wā o ka huakaʻi ma ke ʻano he mea nui e hoʻomohala ʻia kahi paʻa o ka hilinaʻi ma waena o lāua ʻelua, pono ʻole lāua e hana ma ke ʻano he kime i mea he ʻoluʻolu ka huakaʻi.
7. Hiki iā ʻoe ke ʻike i nā mea kupaianaha
ʻAʻole ʻoe e ʻike piha i kekahi. ʻAʻole ʻokoʻa nā kāne. ʻO kēia ke kumu ma ka huakaʻi pū ʻana, e loaʻa iā ʻoe ka manawa kūpono e hana i nā mea hoihoi a me nā ʻike leʻaleʻa e pili ana i kāu hoa.
Maliʻa paha o kahi mākau āu e ʻike ʻole ai, e like me ka ʻōlelo ʻana i kahi ʻōlelo a i ʻole kahi haʻuki haʻuki, e hoʻohou i kou kuanaʻike a me kou manaʻo e pili ana i kāu hoa.
8. Luhi pōpō
ʻAʻole hiki ke alo ʻia i kekahi mau manawa leʻaleʻa. Inā hele ʻoe hoʻokahi, noho ʻoe ma luna iā lākou ma ka heluhelu ʻana i kahi puke, hoʻolohe ʻana i ke mele a i ʻole ke pāʻani ʻana i kahi pāʻani wikiō.
Hele pū, lilo ia mau manawa i mea leʻaleʻa, keu nō inā ʻo kāu hoa. ʻOiai i loko o kēlā mau manawa liʻiliʻi hiki iā lākou ke kamaʻilio kūkākūkā nui loa a ʻike hou i kekahi i kekahi.
9. ʻOi aku ka maikaʻi o kekahi mau ʻike huakaʻi ke kaʻana like ʻia
Ke noʻonoʻo nei i ka napoʻo ʻana o ka lā mai ka piko o ka mauna Roraima, ke ʻike nei iā ʻoe iho e like me Salar de Uyuní a i ʻole e noʻonoʻo ana i ka Mona Lisa ma Louvre, he mea ʻole ia he mau hanana kū hoʻokahi.
Eia nō naʻe, ke kaʻana like ʻoe iā lākou me kēlā kanaka kūikawā, ʻoi aku ko lākou manaʻo a me ka naʻau.
10. Loaʻa iā ʻoe kekahi e kākoʻo iā ʻoe
Inā hele huakaʻi ʻoe, ʻaʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke nalo i kāu ʻeke a me nā ʻūlū. Lilo kēia i mea hōʻoluʻolu ʻole i kekahi mau hanana, e like me ka hele ʻana i ka lua a i ʻole inā ma ke kahakai ʻoe a makemake ʻoe e hiamoe.
Inā hele ʻoe ma ke ʻano he kāne, ʻaʻole ʻoe e ʻeha i kēia mau discomforts, ʻike kēlā me kēia i kekahi a me kā lākou mea.
11. ʻAe iā ʻoe e kiʻi i kahi manaʻo o kā lākou kaila hoʻomākaukau
Ma ka hoʻokō ʻana i nā hana i loko o ka hoʻolālā ʻana i kahi huakaʻi, hiki iā ʻoe ke kiʻi i kahi ʻano o kā lākou hana a hana pū me kekahi hana nui i loko o ka pilina.
Inā ʻo ka ʻoiaʻiʻo o ka hoʻolālā ʻana i kahi wā hoʻomaha ma ke ʻano he kāne he lawa e hoʻonāukiuki iā ia (a i ʻole) e hoʻolilo iā ia i mea e kaohi ʻole ai, hiki iā ʻoe ke kiʻi i kahi manaʻo e like me ka hoʻolālā ʻana i kou ola, a ʻoi aku paha, kāu male male hiki.
12. Nā kiʻi paʻi nani
Ke huakaʻi like lākou, hiki iā lākou ke kiʻi i nā kiʻi nani a pupule hoʻi e hoʻomanaʻo iā lākou i nā manawa a lākou i noho ai, hiki iā lākou ke kau iā lākou ma nā pūnaewele a kaʻana like i ka hauʻoli me kā lākou mea hoʻopili.
13. E kamaʻilio e pili ana i nā kumuhana koʻikoʻi
Aia paha kekahi mea āu e makemake ai e nīnau iā ia? ʻO kēia ka manawa.
Ma nā huakaʻi he mau manawa pili aloha e hāʻawi iā lākou iho i ke kamaʻilio e pili ana i nā kumuhana hohonu a koʻikoʻi.
Hiki i nā huakaʻi kaʻa lōʻihi a i ʻole ka hele wāwae ke manawa kūpono e hoʻoponopono ai i nā pilikia nui. E nīnau e pili ana i kāna mea i makemake ai mai ke ola, pehea kona ʻano i kekahi mau makahiki a i ʻole e pili wale ana i kona wā kamaliʻi a me ka ʻohana.
Mai haʻalele i kēia manawa kūpono e ʻike pono ai iā ia.
14. E loaʻa iā ʻoe kekahi e hoʻomākeʻaka iā ʻoe a kākoʻo iā ʻoe i nā manawa paʻakikī
I ka wā o ka huakaʻi, he mea maʻamau ia no nā hanana i ʻike ʻole ʻia a i ʻole kekahi hanana i manaʻo ʻole ʻia e like me ka nalowale ʻana o kahi lele a i ʻole kahi mālama hemahema.
Inā ʻike ʻoe iā ʻoe iho i kahi kūlana maikaʻi ʻole, loaʻa iā ʻoe i kekahi e hoʻomāmā i ka ukana naʻau a hiki paha iā ʻoe ke ʻakaʻaka i kekahi o kēlā mau manawa keu a ka makaʻu i kēlā me kēia huakaʻi.
15. E hana ana ʻoe i nā mea hoʻomanaʻo poina ʻole
ʻO kekahi o nā mea uku nui e pili ana i kahi huakaʻi ʻo ia nā mea hoʻomanaʻo i koe, ʻoi aku inā ʻo kahi huakaʻi me kahi kanaka kūikawā.
Ke huakaʻi like lākou, ke hana nei lākou i panakō o nā mea hoʻomanaʻo, nā moʻolelo a me nā anecdotes e lawelawe i ka wā e hiki mai ana e hoʻāla i kēlā huakaʻi a lākou i kaʻanalike aku ai a he mea kānalua paha ia mea
16. Pili aloha ia
Hele pū ka huakaʻi like i ka makana ma ke ʻano he hoʻokahi o nā hana aloha i hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻolālā me kāu hoa.
I ka wā o ka huakaʻi ma ke ʻano he ʻelua, e ʻike lāua i nā manawa kūikawā e hoʻohui pono i kahi mahele o ke aloha i ka pilina. Ke noʻonoʻo nei i ka napoʻo ʻana o ka lā ma ke kahakai, ke pāʻina ahiahi ʻana i ka hale ʻaina Italia maikaʻi a i ʻole ke huakaʻi ʻana ma ke ala ʻo Inca kahi mau hana e hiki ai ke hoʻoulu i ka lewa aloha i hānai i kēlā me kēia pilina.
17. Hoʻonui i ka pilina
Ua ʻike anei ʻoe i nā kāne e huakaʻi hele nei i kahi ola keu ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi ma mua o ka poʻe ʻaʻole?
ʻAe, he hōʻoiaʻiʻo kēia. Hoʻokumu ʻia ia ma ka ʻoiaʻiʻo ke huakaʻi ʻoe me kēlā kanaka kūikawā e kaʻana like ʻoe i nā manawa hauʻoli a ʻike ʻoe i kekahi i kekahi i kekahi kekelē i lilo ʻole ʻoe i mea pale ʻia i nā wahi ʻē aʻe, e like me ka pili aloha.
18. ʻO ka home kahi e ola ai ka puʻuwai
ʻO kekahi o nā maikaʻi ʻole o ka huakaʻi ʻana iā ʻoe iho kahi manawa hiki mau i kahi manawa āu e manaʻo ai he kaʻawale, kaʻawale a hoʻopau ʻole i ka nalowale ʻana i kou ʻano home.
Ke hele ʻoe ma ke ʻano he kāne ʻole ʻaʻole hiki mai kēia, ʻoiai ʻo kēlā mea kūikawā me ʻoe e hāʻawi iā ʻoe i kēlā ʻano kamaʻāina a hōʻoluʻolu āu e ʻike ai ma ka home, no laila ʻike mau ʻoe aia ʻoe ma ka home, no kahi o lākou.
No laila eia nā pono he nui i hiki ke loaʻa iā ʻoe ke huakaʻi hele ma ke ʻano he kāne. He huakaʻi ia ʻaʻole pono ʻoe e haʻalele i ka noho ʻana.
E hoʻāʻo a haʻi iā mākou i kāu ʻike.
